Radically Ordinary Hospitality – Invite the Guests

So we have set the table. We are excited to eat with others. But who do we invite? Our tendency is going to be friends, family, those who like us, those that we like, those with the same social status, those who are like us, those with the same ethnicity. This was especially true for the first-century Jewish society also.

Quick history lesson: 400 years before Jesus, Israel was dragged off to exile in Babylon, 1000 miles to the east. The temple had been the centre of Jewish faith in Jerusalem yet it had closed down, the sacrificial system had been put to an end and the priesthood was wiped out. So how did the Jews now obey the commands of the Torah? What should they do now? Judaism had to be re-invented and re-orientated. So their homes became the new temple, their tables the new altar, the father of the household the new priest and the meal was their sacrifice. Sounds like a great idea! But if homes were the new temple then the commands of the temple had to be kept in their house… That meant no Gentiles (non-Jews), no one with special needs, no one who was deformed, no one who did not obey the Torah etc.

400 years later, Jesus enters the scene and he eats with tax collectors and prostitutes. He eats with those who were hated. He eats with all the people the Jews held at arm’s length. He eats with those at the bottom of the moral ladder. He challenges the norm and overturns the concept of eating around a table. He is radical and outrageous. Jesus shows us that meals are not a boundary marker, but a sign of God’s great welcome as he invites them into the kingdom. Because ‘the Son of Man came to seek and to save the lost’ (Luke 19:10) he didn’t come for the ‘healthy who need a doctor, but the sick’ (Mark 2:17).

This challenges me to think of those I invite to share food around our table. So often we invite friends we feel comfortable with or those we want to be friends with, family or those in our church. How often do I invite non-Christians? How often do I invite my neighbour who lives on his own? How often do I invite those on the periphery? How often do I invite those who are a little bit awkward and a little harder work? How often do I invite those who are totally different to me? As a married couple, do we invite singles over? As a 30-year-old do I invite those older than me, or expect an invite from them? As a couple without children do I expect my friends with children don’t need company, or should we offer to cook and eat it at their house?

Jesus went to eat at the house of a prominent Pharisee and instructed him:

“When you give a luncheon or dinner, do not invite your friends, your brothers or sisters, your relatives, or your rich neighbours; if you do, they may invite you back and so you will be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, the blind, and you will be blessed. Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” Luke 14:12-14

Who do you normally invite for dinner?

Who is God asking you to invite?

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